I’m no supermom…

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I’m not the type of mom that goes on walks everyday, i don’t make food from scratch, I don’t have a full day planner, I’m not a morning person, I do enjoy how easy spaghettios are, my hair is a mess half the time and no i do not shower daily, i rarely do my make up, I am a smoker,, I’ve always been a lazy person, my apartment is usually a disaster, the list goes on and on and on. But as much as I don’t do, I make up for in love and being content and making sure my kids are happy and healthy. As exhausted I am most of the time, I do what needs to be done for my kids. We try very hard with what little we do have. 

Delilah Capri<3

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My little Delilah, my mini me, my second baby, She is fearless, a little tomboy, funny, loves to dance, probably the most beautiful little girl in the world. (well in my eyes at least) I was so happy to find out i was having a little girl. I remember the ultrasound tech saying before telling us the sex said, “well get ready to put bars on your windows!” I was gonna be able to experience dressing her up and doing her hair(when she actually grows some hair). She has such a personality and the age she is at right now if my absolute favorite age, and soon she will be experiencing the terrible twos like her brother. Delilah is very funny. She knows how to stand her ground with her brother, even if she usually loses. She’s also a daddy’s little girl. She loves snuggling with Patrick, and he can’t get enough of her. She’s very smart, but instead of learning stuff from us, she learns most stuff from her brother. I was so scared when i had kids back to back. Zaden and Delilah are literally a year and 5 days apart. Zaden is feb 11th and Delilah is feb 16th, but now I am happy because i know they will always be close. They can watch out for eachother. It’s very comforting for me to know that. 

Zaden Patrick<3

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My son Zaden is 2 years old, and let me tell you, his terrible twos are terrible. Don’t get me wrong he is thee most amazing little boy and has the sweetest heart. But the tantrums and saying “NO” constantly, hurting his little sister, not sharing, touching stuff he’s not suppose to. I know this is all normal, i know he’s only 2 years old and this is all a faze, but sometimes i just want to SCREAM!!! Anywhooooo, he’s my baby boy and my first born. He’s silly and even though he can be really mean to his sister, he can also be an amazing big brother. He had a hard time learning how to talk, the doctor said we might have to put him in speech therapy, but didn’t and now hes saying so many words, he still has trouble saying sentences but he’s a lot better than he was. He also just started letting us know when he has pooped and that he has a dirty diaper. So potty training is right around the corner. Zaden is a very social. He has never been shy and is very independent but still loves to be close to mommy and daddy. He was the first great grandchild of my family, so when i had him everyone was very involved and very supportive. I believe Zaden has this undeniable power to brighten anyone’s day. He loves so hard and loves to be the center of attention. 

My life

Hi. my name is Brittany. I am a lot of things, but the most important is that I am a mother and a girlfriend. My family is number one for me. My kids are both toddlers. Zaden is 2 and Delilah is 1. They will be 2 and 3 in feb. My boyfriend is Patrick, and he is also my kid’s Dad. He is an excellent father. Very caring but still a disciplinary in our family. We, like every other couple, have our obstacles and problems that we face, but we get through them together and never give up on what we have. I am a very open minded person, I speak my mind and I have absolutely no shame. I’m not scared to talk about disgusting things at all. I think after you experience having a baby, which to do you must let go of all your insecurities, you lose any shame you once had. I don’t really have any friends. I have 2 best friends, Christine and Dee. Once you have kids, especially more than one, it makes it harder to go out and do things for yourself. I don’t really mind though because naturally I’m a homebody. I don’t really know what to write about really for right now, I’m very new at this, but i will figure it out as i go haha.